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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.0.0 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Sat, 22 Nov 2008 04:08:04 GMT--><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" href="/universal/styles/feed.css"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Kelleen Griffin - Comments</title><link>http://www.kelleengriffin.com/blog/</link><description></description><copyright></copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace Site Server v5.0.0 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</generator><item><title>Kelleen Griffin comments on The Principle of Noninterference</title><author>Kelleen Griffin</author><pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 04:07:22 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.kelleengriffin.com/blog/2008/11/4/the-principle-of-noninterference.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">224081:2217614:comment/2444251</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>This is a good question.  Depends on what you mean when you say adapt.  If I bang my head against the wall with the expectation that it won't hurt and then take some aspirin, then I adapted. I think it's great that a person stops expecting something; now they are fully alive, present, and making live action choices.  Think of life as one big experiment.   And then smile.   Be well, Kelleen</p>]]></description></item><item><title>T.Bell comments on The Principle of Noninterference</title><author>T.Bell</author><pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 03:01:27 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.kelleengriffin.com/blog/2008/11/4/the-principle-of-noninterference.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">224081:2217614:comment/2444004</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>&quot;So here's the kick-ass part of this blog post- stop wanting to change how things are, and start changing what you expect.&quot;</p><p>What do you do when you don't know what to expect any longer?  Expectations lead to either higher expectations or disappointment, can a neutral place be found......<br/>I won't give up my expectations, they are part of my fabric, but I will change, is that a flaw in my expectations or just a new path to meet them.<br/>I have exatly the same expectations in/from life that I had two decades ago, I couldn't change how things are but i didn't change what i expected. I just adapted..I guess.</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Kelleen Griffin comments on The Principle of Noninterference</title><author>Kelleen Griffin</author><pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 19:22:02 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.kelleengriffin.com/blog/2008/11/4/the-principle-of-noninterference.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">224081:2217614:comment/2438805</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for commenting, Joe.  And good insight on self expectations.  My experience is that people go in one of two directions here.  They either don't have enough self-esteem to expect anything from themselves or they are overburdened with critical ambitious self talk, expecting the unrealistic.  It's rare to see a steady middle ground.</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Joe "TheHairFarmer.com" Kennedy comments on The Principle of Noninterference</title><author>Joe "TheHairFarmer.com" Kennedy</author><pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 16:57:32 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.kelleengriffin.com/blog/2008/11/4/the-principle-of-noninterference.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">224081:2217614:comment/2438319</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>So true Kel.  I have found that expectations of others can be extremely painful, but self expectations can be used very effectively.</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Kelleen Griffin comments on J.K. Rowling's Failure and Imagination Speech at Harvard</title><author>Kelleen Griffin</author><pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 21:51:56 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.kelleengriffin.com/blog/2008/6/13/jk-rowlings-failure-and-imagination-speech-at-harvard.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">224081:2217614:comment/2401654</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>You're more than welcome! It remains one of my favorites.  Be well, Kel</p>]]></description></item><item><title>A close friend comments on J.K. Rowling's Failure and Imagination Speech at Harvard</title><author>A close friend</author><pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 15:35:15 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.kelleengriffin.com/blog/2008/6/13/jk-rowlings-failure-and-imagination-speech-at-harvard.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">224081:2217614:comment/2400599</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Wow, this is truly inspirational. Honest, articulate, heart-felt and amazing.  So much wisdom and insight packed into a few brief moments.  Thank you for sharing this.</p>]]></description></item><item><title>J Bayne comments on The Moment</title><author>J Bayne</author><pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 18:46:11 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.kelleengriffin.com/blog/2008/7/9/the-moment.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">224081:2217614:comment/2183363</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>These kinds of choices lead us to our intuition. You have to dig deep and come from a compassionate and mindful place. These are not quick decisions but ones that could determine your future. Be well. Namaste. -John<br/>www.theashramyoga.com/schedule.php</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Kelleen Griffin comments on Tip #2: Fly Under the Radar</title><author>Kelleen Griffin</author><pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 00:49:42 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.kelleengriffin.com/blog/2008/9/11/tip-2-fly-under-the-radar.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">224081:2217614:comment/2021882</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Betsy, great comment!  It really all boils down to that question.  What do we really want?  </p><p>Thanks for posting, Kel</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Betsy Talbot comments on Tip #2: Fly Under the Radar</title><author>Betsy Talbot</author><pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2008 20:10:59 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.kelleengriffin.com/blog/2008/9/11/tip-2-fly-under-the-radar.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">224081:2217614:comment/2021157</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Is it more important to get what you want or get all the attention you want?  I've found you can get much more in this life (and encounter less stress) by flying under the radar.  Though I think now I will borrow your teacher's phrase and call it &quot;finding an elegant solution.&quot;  </p><p>Really loving this series, Kel!</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Kelleen Griffin comments on Tip #2: Fly Under the Radar</title><author>Kelleen Griffin</author><pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 15:00:18 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.kelleengriffin.com/blog/2008/9/11/tip-2-fly-under-the-radar.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">224081:2217614:comment/2016023</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Hey Joe,</p><p>You are so right.  Thank you for saying it, it completes the message above beautifully and gets to the heart of the matter:  deciding whether getting things done is more important than massive amounts of drama.</p><p>Happy Sunday, and thanks for visiting here!!!<br/>Kel</p>]]></description></item></channel></rss>